I basically feel the same as the therapist.....I would want to say that what's in the past is just that and don't feel obligated to reciprocate in the way he wen onto details on his past I......omission is kinder than out right telling him 4 or 5.....I would "I delighted that you share with me....for me I the past is gone and was part my life but it's not who I'm and is not part of our marriage"
from a man's perspective
