some courts and judges will convict rape at the drop of a dime, others won't even take a case like this because they were dating and had sex multiple times beforehand.
my personal view is that guys have sex drives and are human. not all of them have great self control. even the best of guys can have their weak times and lose control. it doesn't excuse the behavior, but it doesn't mean that he should necessarily have his life destroyed for it either. if he didn't do any damage to her, then losing her was punishment enough.
as for him doing it to other girls, don't believe everything you are told. many girls will lie about their ex-boyfriend even if they are still friends and had a good breakup.
