A question for Sadistic people here, but not the fake abusive so called Sadistic Dom's. Maybe some self aware people are here, let's test it out..
The question- You know the moment where your masochist misses you and it brings some pain feeling that hunger, but she also enjoys that hunger, and then in that moment she craves mercy because it touched something similar but new sensation in her. What's more tasty for a Sadist, just keeping her hungry or letting little mercy in order to explore new twisted sensation?
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04 Apr 2025 6:10AM
Oh side note, if what makes her want the mercy is something even more masochist..
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04 Apr 2025 6:13AM
It’s a fine line of hungry and seeing the limits she can reach. Always want to feel a craving deep inside so she thinks of more and is willing to push the limits.
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04 Apr 2025 6:17AM
So for you, you rather give mercy to explore new paths of masochist craving with her rather than just making her miss your attention?
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04 Apr 2025 6:21AM
No no. I want to make her miss the attention. And then when she can’t take it anymore push to an extreme limit. Make her do something by she has never even thought of doing to crave it more
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04 Apr 2025 6:34AM
Well as a female masochist and submissive. I would say that what push our limits is feeling safe rather than just hungry. It's not the hunger that pushes my limits but the trust I have in my Master and reliability
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04 Apr 2025 6:35AM
A mutual trust that master has your needs in mind and is doing it for growth is always needed. 3/4 of the relationship is mental more then anything. Knowing likes and dislikes and how to get the most out of an experience
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04 Apr 2025 7:01AM
Likes and dislikes are not static. Sometimes it can be I like the hunger and thatbit pushes my buttons and limits and sometimes it's the mercy itself that deepens the limits. It's personal example but objective reality, buttons are not static nor likes and dislikes
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04 Apr 2025 7:04AM
I agree but the one that is over you should know this. And know what is needed at what time. So when you think you know what your body aches maybe your master is trying to take it one level higher
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04 Apr 2025 7:13AM
Any dynamic is a team effort, and every person has her own sensations, my Master can be all perfect, but that doesn't mean that he can really monitor a new bubbling .. in other words, while you think you might taking it on higher level and not listening right, you might miss the moment, not all apples grow in same timing on same tree, besides this is not discussion about what my Master is "trying to do" it's my personal curious question regardless of my dynamic
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04 Apr 2025 6:17AM
I'm the rare combination that you're asking about. I'm a sexual sadist and also a psychotherapist. I stopped doing therapy and did not renew my license when I realized that as a sadist, any tension, discomfort, anguish, agony, unrequited need that I can exploit in others feeds my ego and dominance. It doesn't need to be in a BDSM session with a pain sub. That manipulation and control is a source of satisfaction. The more manipulation and control that can be had, the better. If it cannot be immediately sexualized, then whatever is most distressing will do.
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04 Apr 2025 6:18AM
Explore it further. Safe words exist. Unless it's something with the potential to permanently harm
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04 Apr 2025 6:24AM
I like that as well. I do like the struggle of missing my Master, bit I love exploring new things and the mercy of not missing His attention is only way to explore further. Oh and yeah it depends how someone is creative. You can be having the attention and still miss someone. Lol. And yeah, no permanent harm. Glad someone here said that :)
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04 Apr 2025 6:22AM
let her starving a bit more and then feed her enough but only so much she is still hungry and not satisfied. keep her on that line, hungry, begging and eating.
did you ever had hunger and eating something but still hungry after that?
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04 Apr 2025 6:31AM
Yes but that wasn't the question. And to be honest like I said in other comment . When you have good connection with someone, there is no need for hunger game because you always hunger for them
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04 Apr 2025 8:40AM
Do tell us, your answer is good for the following question. So to sum up, only hunger for you and just constant hunger no new thing is worth of little mercy?
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04 Apr 2025 9:56AM
no not constant hunger but as punishment is hunger good. its my decision to have mercy or not, you can't buy mercy from me.
you can have hunger and beeing feeded at the same time with the right amount of food.
when she start to enjoy the pain from hunger then she gets food.
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04 Apr 2025 10:45AM
See I kinda felt you will give the answer, one that brings the other question but you already answered it. It was what happens when she enjoys the hunger and "missing" your attention and so on .. when she just accepts and fall into like it's something lovely, no pain of hunger...
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04 Apr 2025 6:22AM
Depends - but I generally lean towards building the craving and then releasing it. I always take a request for mercy at face value. So if she is asking for mercy and offering something even more valuable down the road of sadism/masochism. Then it’s a win/win, and I would certainly go for it.
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04 Apr 2025 6:29AM
Yesss!!! Hahaha!! Inlike that! It's a win win! I would say in connection there is always a hunger because you connect you crave that person either way even when you get a kiss you crave another one and so on. And then as well it's hot not getting one. But then something else bubbles up and open some new curious sensation... and then mercy and being little feed is needed so you can try and see that new thing! Just a little mercy to have win win
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04 Apr 2025 6:43AM
It takes time and maturity to truly master the sadistic side, often those who are new will cave to the immediate satisfaction of denying her what she “wants” and while that denial will feed the masochist inside her the frustration for her will out weigh the release. Enough mistakes like that will lead to the breaking of the bound and a lose/lose for both parties, or sometimes something worse.
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04 Apr 2025 10:47AM
A question for you, how your sadistic feels when she no longer feel the pain of the hunger, but just enjoys her masochistic need and thirst?
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04 Apr 2025 2:45PM
It is rare for a masoochist to engage the drive to satisfy their need for pain without the hunger. However it does happen, it’s usually obvious when it does, and that is when the denial portion comes in. It is incredibly annoying to do with an untrained submissive but with a trained submissive, who has truly give her mind and soul to you, the just the simple act of denying her that need will be the punishment she truly craves and can often quickly bring back that hunger. It can also be held onto for longer windows if needed to cause that same feeling without the need for something physical. This part does depend on your bond between each other.
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04 Apr 2025 3:02PM
Hmm.. maybe I didn't asked my question right, was more like, not not having the hunger, but enjoying the hunger, like enjoying the denial lol.. more like, do you feel the need to deeper the hunger so when denied she can again feel that desired torment of denial?
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04 Apr 2025 3:17PM
Maybe I explained it to much then…the answer is yes
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04 Apr 2025 3:31PM
lol.. okay, thanks, indeed how strange, sadistic and masochistic needs so connected, I mean with a little difference as we are all individuals but... very intriguing. I would say it's also soo strange to enjoy the denial of being "feed" like accepting the fall and not feeling it being torment, but then, the point is that deeper hunger so the masochist is tormented a little by that hunger.. no?
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04 Apr 2025 6:18PM
Yes it is a cycle that must be carefully controlled.
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04 Apr 2025 6:24AM
In our darkest hours we crave what we can not have.
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04 Apr 2025 6:33AM
Can I see what you are working, then I will tell how you would need to be used
