I confess that I finally got the courage to ask out this guy I've been speaking very deeply with. i don't mean deeply as in anything bad I mean lovey stuff. Anyways he said he doesn't want to date a girl he hasn't seen naked and he wants me to send him n00dz.. I did like an idiot and he called me pudgy so what do i do? I break down and complain about it on the internet.. FML Men just suck..
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10 Jan 2012 12:53AM
Take my advise: Don't look too much into it. YES. Men suck. A LOT. Don't bother with them. Stick to girls. they know how to do it.
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10 Jan 2012 1:02AM
The OP has been speaking 'very deeply' because he's a man.
Unverified female = It's a man.
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10 Jan 2012 1:04AM
Call him a moron and move on with your life.
Its a simple tactic. Make the girl self conscious of herself to give herself up more easily.
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10 Jan 2012 1:13AM
To add to my original post, looking at your pics... youre beautiful. Anyone calling you fat and any other negative thing is a degenerate. Plain and simple. If a girl like you asked ME out, Id be pretty stoked.
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10 Jan 2012 1:23AM
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10 Jan 2012 1:07AM
No hes a idiot and not all men suck!
I could say the very same about women... tell him he has a tiny dick and move on, he'll never forget about you
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10 Jan 2012 1:37AM
Yes, he is an idiot. Not all men are assholes, but a lot of women do pick the assholes and bypass the guys they are friends with, then complain to their friends (male or female) that men suck.
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10 Jan 2012 2:11AM
Im sorry I'm not verified because I don't own a camera of my own if you don't believe that I'm a girl then don't bother to talk to me k? Simple lol
N thank you to all the guys/gals for the advice, I mean I take pudgy to heart because I KNOW im not fat, but personally i think i could pass for pudgy so idk..
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10 Jan 2012 2:23AM
Men and women perceive attraction differently. Women have some idealized ultra thin vision of what they think their body should be like. Men are most attracted to a women a few sizes larger than this. Really though, nobody should be able to tell you what you think you should look like, although if he's calling you pudgy there's a good chance he's attracted to it anyways because that's what he wants you to be.
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10 Jan 2012 4:12AM
Let's get our pudgy on! My sweet widdle pudgy wudgy Ember.
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10 Jan 2012 10:18AM
You look fantastic! Just ignore him, it's his loss!
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10 Jan 2012 10:39AM
ignore him ember, your gorgeous babe hes just a tosser, probably all he gets lol xx
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10 Jan 2012 1:04PM
You're absolutely beautiful. That guy is a blithering idiot.
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10 Jan 2012 5:49PM
Pudgy in what world? Anorexiaville? Yea.. sure.. compared to some sickly, famished, malnourished person youre pudgy. Being that youre a "normal" person that eats food, you look great.
- Dylan poster.
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10 Jan 2012 5:50PM
Pudgy in what world? Anorexiaville? Yea.. sure.. compared to some sickly, famished, malnourished person youre pudgy. Being that youre a "normal" person that eats food, you look great.
- Dylan poster.
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10 Jan 2012 8:39PM
U r gorgeous ember!!! Dont listen to the jackass!!!
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10 Jan 2012 8:44PM
I agree that lots of men are total assholes...like lots of the pricks on this website, but don't make the mistake of thinking they are all that way. Any douchebag that wants pics of you naked before you date is only interested in one thing...himself. Fuck that loser and move on. If you're into the ladies, maybe try that, but don't believe that's going to solve your problems automatically either. I know lots of lesbians that are every bit as shitty and mean. Be yourself, no matter what that is....I promise there is a person (probably literally millions of people) that will love you for who you are, not how well you photograph naked.
