Yeah I hear ya. My girlfriend is a real good girl type. My last relationship the sex was great but she was a little crazy and unpredictable and got me into some undesirable shit. This time I went for a nice bring-home-to-the-family type and she is gorgeous, everybody says she looks like Jennifer Lawrence and she kinda does but honestly she is hotter. But she is very picky in bed. She is the same as your wife, she loves it and always wants sex but it is never good for me. She gets mad at me that we hardly ever fuck. She doesn't do anal at all, she only likes a couple positions, won't do my fav which is doggy because she says it hurts somehow. She lets me cum on her which I always do but not on her face. She almost never blows me, which is part of the problem as my last GF always blew me to get me going, and nice long 20 minute blows too, and let me slap my cock all over her mouth and face and do light face fucking. She also sucked my nuts like a champ while I jerked off and she really really enjoyed it. Anyway it is hard to go from that to a sweet girl who is good for you but doesn't know how to fuck. I am the envy of so many guys but they have no idea that we barely even fuck. Another issue for me is that she is very very dry and I have a rather large cock and no matter how much foreplay it takes 10 minutes of engineering and lube and spit to stuff my cock in there every time. At first it was kind of hot since she is so tight but now it is just really annoying. Other GF's would get wet as fuck after just a couple minutes of foreplay and I could just rip off their clothes and fuck them anywhere in the house. Because of how long it takes with my current GF she always wants to do it lying down in bed. Basically she has no desire for interesting or exciting or uncomfortable sex. It is the same every time. I always cum, but it just isn't fun. I actually prefer to jerk off to porn. I like fake tits in porn and my GF hates this since hers are big but real and have the natural sag they should. I don't even want her to have fakes, I just like it in fantasy, but she gets jealous that I would rather jack it to fakes than fuck her. She also refuses to shave her cunt bald. She will trim but won't shave it. I like my pussies bald. She complains we don't have enough sex but doesn't get the hint that she needs to change so that I will enjoy it. I feel like she is selfish in bed. It is really hard at this point to be blunt about what I want her to do, but I guess it is partly my fault for not being more demanding. She is just such an innocent sweetheart with no dirty side and it is tough to say "well I would fuck you if you let me choke you with my cock", or something like that.
Like you said, it is just so difficult that it is easier to just find some slut like I did and have a nice anonymous fuck. Sometimes it is hard to pin down exactly why some people suck at sex. I feel like maybe it is just the attitude or the general enthusiasm or something. Really sweet girls you want to marry just aren't good fucks. I don't know how it makes sense but this girl I fucked last night was instantly better in bed than my GF. She really wanted to fuck me and she did all the work and went for it. She was super wet right away and I could just ram it in. She showed how much she loved it with her body language and words and moans, and I could tell right away that she would be very easily mold-able if I continued to fuck her more times. I could probably get her to do anything I wanted within 10 fucks. And somehow her ditsy bubbly personality just worked so well for sex. She is the exact opposite of my GF in so many ways and it was a huge turn on. I really don't know what to do. I wouldn't want to seriously date a girl like that but I don't know if I can stay with my current GF with bad sex. I wish I could have one GF/wife for friendship/companionship, and one for the amazing sex and excitement. I think this must be the dilemma of many men. I still think it is so weird that sex with my long time and loving GF is so mechanical and bad and was so good the first time with this other girl.
