I have been reading confessions here for quite some time, but this will be my first one.
I had a bf with whom I have done some swapping in my 20's, and I wasn't a fan of it, on the contrary, I did not enjoy seeing him with someone else, but, he was out of my league, and I did everything to make him stay, but eventually, he didn't. Now, there was a plus side this, it opened up my views on sex, otherwise, I wouldn't be here.
Now to the confession part, I am in my 40's now, and about a year back, I decided to do something, since my husband lost almost all interest in me, sexually. I am no beauty, but I try to keep my appearance on a satisfying level, or plainly put, doing my best in that regard. I love this man, so out of desperation, I hinted towards inviting someone else in our bed, but in a way that in the end, he is convinced it is his brilliant idea.
So far we did this multiple times, with two different couples, and I am still not a fan of it, but it did fix our sex life. He has been all over me, almost twice or trice a week, in between our, not so frequent meet ups with couples.
Who says sex can't save a marriage.
