When a Dom is a Real Dom 101 - Be Responsible -
Some of the men I have met are takers, irresponsible takers. And that is not what Domination is about. Even in the rough domain there is a trust that is given and a being that is giving you the option to guide, command, decide, enlighten or getting into the deepest exploration of pain and pleasure mind centers collision. Because of this, you need to adapt to the situation and not take for granted this power given to you by that submissive that think you are the one to enrich her role in the universe by the series of actions you will embark together. Been Irresponsible by not study your submissive and her desires and her wishes into the path of her life is the selfish way, the chauvinism way is not what BDSM is about, that is where the Wannabes stay and make all of us look bad. If there were no subs, there were no doms, is as simple as that, and those dreams and desires to be yours, is what make you, you in the first place. Domination by will and Chauvinism by taking is not the same, but on the world the art of BDSM and Domination is exactly compare to it, because of the lack of responsibility by the "Doms" that get into the trip many to masks their desires of destruction more than a experience in which you will enrich the submissive life by taking the control again that is given and all the decisions entrusted to you. We need to be responsible to stop been compared to destructive irresponsible men that are just giving BDSM a bad name. BDSM can be dark, but is not bad. It is a choice of good for many.
Best part of life is Guide and Care, sometimes going rough as well
