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17 Sep 2022 2:48AM
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So this happened a few years ago but it still messes with me. Met this chick my sophmore year of college, was a skinmy 5'10 redhead. Pretty good looking, and i fell for her hella quick. We started dating and everything seemed good for 2 years.

Things turned bad during the last year. Everything i did was wrong and she was always being really possesive and slowly pulled me away from all of my friends and made sure her friends were my friends. She became distant and all that shit, looking back it was obvious thst she started cheating.

I spent a year trying to fix things and because i i got so used to the crazy bullshit she put me through i was getting desperate. I was willing to try just about anything to make things work. In the last two weeks she had a work vacation accross the country in California and spent a week there. Spent a few days trying to shave everything and pack the lacey panties. 

When she got back from the 'work trip' she immediately brought up the idea of a open relationship, and i said yes to it out of hopes things would get better. Within a week she had been with 3 guys and tried to have me watch one of them. I couldnt deal with it and ended it.

The next day i got a message from her roommate on snap, i wish it was nudes cause she was hot, but it was her saying she felt guilty for everything and not telling me. My ex had been cheating and bragging to her roommates. In the last year i was with her she had been with 3 of my friends, and at least 4 other guys, one being the dude from cali. Going into detail with what she did and how there were close calls. There was a big exchange between the two of them about how she wanted to have me move to cali and just be a cuck/paypig once i got there since i would have no good way out.

This still haunts me because it really fucked me up.

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17 Sep 2022 3:54AM

Damnnn bro thats shitty to hear that someone put you through something like that. I mean I would normally say get her back for that evil shitttt but you know what even tho it still fucks with you alot you came out on top in the long run. For real you don't have somebody holding you back and honestly from the way this reads you're far better off with out a sucmmy person like this. Just think of what your life wouldve been like if y'all still be together. But I'm just somebody on the outside looking in idk. Hope all gets better for you 

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17 Sep 2022 5:05AM

That sounds really abusive. I'm glad you got out. You're much better off without her. Go find someone who treats you right. Open relationships are fine, I'm in one, but the key is communication and honesty. If someone doesn't care about your feelings and tries to control you, get out. It's not worth your mental health. I'm really glad you got out, it would've only gotten worse. If this is really messing with you, maybe talk to a therapist about it. I've been in plenty of abusive relationships, and they mess with you. Talk to a therapist, and make sure the next relationship you're in is a good, healthy one based on honesty and communication. Good luck man.

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17 Sep 2022 9:25AM

To have a successful relationship, you have to be as selfish as that cunt was. It's YOUR life, find someone who will make YOU happy. I'm so sick of hearing about men who let women treat them like shit all in hopes of the relationship getting better. IT WON'T. Hopefully now you see how backwards that thinking is, and you'll never let some stupid selfish bitch into y your life ever again.

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17 Sep 2022 9:30AM

She sounds like typical narcissist. Lived with one for 7 years and sounds similar to your situation. Sounded like she had a smoking body at 5'10 and redhead

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17 Sep 2022 2:15PM

She probably did it cause you use the words Hella.    Shows your a fake wannabe poser just trying to fit in.

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