I confess I am sick and tired of all the women out there (My girlfriend included)who have double fucking standards and aren't intelligent enough to realize it. They seem to think it's okay if they wanted to sleep with their best girlfriend, because fucking around with another woman isn't cheating on your boyfriend. WTF?! Thats fucking cheating if i ever heard the definition of the word! Then if you say "Well what if I was bi-sexual and I wanted to fuck around with one of my guy friends, would that be considered cheating on your girlfriend?" They say " Oh yeah! thats definitely cheating on your girlfriend!" "Girls dont have to penetrate each other to fuck each other. Guys have to, so thats cheating." What?!! Ever heard of lesbians fucking each other with strap ons, fingering each other, etc.? Thats called penetration! Eating pussy is oral sex, and sucking a dick is oral sex. So then if you say "So if were to just perform oral on another guy that wouldn't be considered cheating, huh?" Then you get "Uh.. no.. thats still cheating." Then you ask how is it cheating for you, but not for her, because it is the same thing. This is what you get: "Its different when two girls sleep together or perform oral on each other as opposed to when two guys do it." "It's normal for girls to do that stuff together, not for guys" Bullshit!! Only in your fucked up head is it somehow different! Sleeping with another human being instead of your boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating! Plain and simple! You dont get to have your cake and eat it fuckin to. Also they seem to be able to lie bold face to you about something because it is a sensitive issue to them that they didnt want to discuss. If you have a sensitive issue that you dont wanna discuss, and you lie to them about it, then you are obviously hiding something from them and you definitely up to no good! Fuck that! I am tired of this shit!! Hate on me all you want to if you feel like it. I dont give a shit. I felt like fucking ranting about bitches and their double standards, and if you dont like it then you should have quit reading a long time ago. FUCK ALL BITCHES WITH DOUBLE STANDARDS WHO THINK THAT HAVING A PUSSY GIVES THEM SOME KIND OF SPECIAL LICENSE TO DO WHAT EVER THE FUCK THEY WANT TO DO!!
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wow, sounds like you have a couple issues. i agree, if someone sleeps with someone else its cheating. i always told my girl that i dont mind if she sleeps with another woman but NO MEN, as long as its NOT A SECRET. as soon as you start keeping secrets then i think theres something else there. i didnt mind it being a double standard because i dont want to sleep with anyone else.
maybe if you feel you need to have another man in your life then you shouldnt be with her to begin with. it sounds like youre pretty against women in general instead of just your girlfriend.
OP here. I dont feel the need for a man in my life. I am straight and have no desire to sleep with a man. My girl is bi though and after she told me it wasnt cheating for her to sleep with women if she wanted. I hypothetically asked her if I were bi like her and i wanted to sleep with a man would she consider me to be cheating on her. I had a feeling when i asked it that i was gonna get a double standard answer, and i was correct. I just wanted to hear it from her own mouth so I could try to make her see that she had a double standard. Apparently she is to stupid or just refuses to acknowledge that i am correct. Only woman i have anything against are one with double standards. Thats all
tell her to have a 3some with the other girl and you can all enjoy and benefit =)
You're just pissed because she hasn't invited you to watch. You both like pussy. What's wrong with that? Sorry dude, but you sound very insecure.
sounds like you may be a little more serious about the relationship than she is. it goes both ways, if she feels like she needs to screw around and not involve you in the fun then shes looking for something she needs and apparently it isnt you.
my relationship is different, my girl doesnt attempt to even hit on another girl till we've talked about it first and agreed on the girl, even though i might not be there the first time. sometimes i am, sometimes i'm not but it gets pretty hot just discussing it and picking out girls.
so, theres a lot you can do to keep the relationship going if thats what you both want. if you cant deal with it or she just wants affairs without you there maybe you should end it. good luck
yeah i think she just wants to fuck around without me being involved in it. I asked earlier if i could be involved in it, and her response was " I dont do threesomes." (prolly because she doesn't want me to fuck her friend as well as her is what i am figuring)and when i asked about watching, she said she wouldn't be able to perform with me watching. I called "bullshit" and told her it sounded like she just wants to carry out an affair on me with a woman, and she is telling me she wants to because she figures if I know about it that i cant get mad at her. I told her she either wants to be with me or with her best girlfriend. She cant have both. I said she can answer me by coming to my house tonight and staying with me or she can go over to her friends house and stay with her. She doesn't know it yet, but if she chooses her friend then we are over with, and I am throwing all her shit outta my house on to the curb & then she can go live with her jobless, welfare leeching, friend and her 2 bratty ass kids, in a half run down house in a shitty neighborhood that has no extra rooms for anyone else to live there. She can be my guest...
Actually yeah do that, fuck the bitch for cheating on you. I would have broken up with her so fast that lightning couldnt catch me.
Women have been on the losing end of male double standards for tens of thousands of years. I think they're perfectly entitled to exercise a couple of their own. It's only fair.
Women are entitled to their "girl time" together. Get used to it.
OP here. To the poster above who said women are entitled to their "girl time" together and to get used to it: I am just fine with her having her "girl time" she can have all she wants. She just cant have it and have me at the same time. So fucking sorry I got respect for myself and I refuse to share the person I sleep with. But yeah she is entitled to lez out all she wants. I just wont be around while or after she does it. I'll be gone like yesterday.
i'm sure this thread has *some* decent points, but i stopped reading after like the 2nd sentence. because what guy doesn't have a fantasy if his girl being with her girlfriend? and if she has feelings for this girl then she has every right to explore and if she decides she likes girls more than guys than deal with it. shes her own person... if shes a cunt then you're probably an asshole.
I am a fucking guy who doesnt fantasize about his girl CHEATING on him with another person. I dont care if that person has a dick or a pussy. If she has feelings for this girl that she has known longer than me then she should have gotten with her and not me. Instead she got with me, because according to her she like guys more. 2 years we've been together and now she is pulling this shit. She is her own person and she is entitled to do whatever she wants, true. I am also my own person and i am entitled to do whatever the fuck i wanna do. Which is to give her a CHOICE between me and her friend, and to kick her ass to the curb if she chooses her over me. Your right though.. She is a cunt and i am an asshole. deal with it.
Fuck that whore, dude. If she wants to eat some pussy, you need to be involved. I'm proud to finally meet a fuckin man on here..
Not every girl is that way. I figured my marriage was done when my then husband told me "you know, I feel like I have been holding you back by not allowing you to be with woman- so it is okay if you want to be with one again." No surprise to everyone that was as long as he could be there and watch or join in. lol And no, it did not happen- that just showed we were both ready to walk away and we split up.
I agree, no fun for me, its cheating. Threesome or no some. It's over otherwise and i don't have to put up with her bullshit. Belongings on the curb is excactly what i would do, then get shitfaced somewhere and bring another home. It is what it is.
OP here. Well, surprise, surprise... apparently having a man who cares about you and has a good job & a well kept home, and a decent car is a lot better than a trashy, welfare queen who can barely afford to keep a roof over her and her kids heads because she drinks up all her money. Imagine that! Lol! Once she saw that there was no way in hell she could convince me to stay around if she slept with her best friend, she made the decision to be with only me. I didnt tell her i would have kicked her out immediately if she did choose to sleep with her, but I think she knew the business. Now for all of you out there that think i am stupid and she is just gonna run around behind my back and do it anyway.. I already thought about that and i have already begun to take steps to make sure i catch her if she does. Nothing fancy.. just trusty ol' GPS tracking on her cell & a couple of friends in the neighborhood that are willing to keep an over watchful eye on her if I give em' something in return for their time and effort. If she turns the GPS in her phone off thats no problem. I will go buy 2 cheap prepaid mobile phones with GPS and plant one in the trunk of her car, and track it with the other one. Problem solved. The trunk of her car is packed full of shit and she will never notice it. All i gotta do is keep it charged. She better keep her nose clean is all i'm sayin..or i will find out and dump her so quick her head will spin. I so wish i could call her ugly ass whore of a best friend and laugh in her ear right now, but that will have to wait till tomorrow when the sun comes up. Ha! stupid bitch! Go find your own damn girlfriend & leave mine the fuck alone!
